Choosing the best from a short list
Once you have found one or more board certified oncologists who seem
excellent, you can interview them to make sure they're good
candidates. No matter how many recommendations you receive or sterling
credentials you have uncovered, until you have a candid conversation
with the human behind the stethoscope, you won't know if this is a
person with whom you'll feel comfortable.
A survivor of low-grade disease describes her perspective on the
doctors she considered:
The first oncologist I went to made some attempt to figure out who I was, figuring that he and I would be having a long-term doctor-patient relationship. He asked me to describe the history of the symptoms that led to my diagnosis. He had spoken to my internist. Unfortunately, making judgments based on a one-hour meeting with a newly diagnosed and obviously upset cancer patient can be shaky. He said that there were three options for my low-grade lymphoma: wait and watch for symptoms to appear, mild chemotherapy with oral medication, or more aggressive chemotherapy with a drug that had come to market about a year before. He decided after this one meeting that I was not "psychologically disposed" to sit around doing nothing, and told me I should go ahead with the aggressive chemotherapy because then I would feel that I was "doing something."
Funny, I am the same person who had natural childbirth rather than take medication, who never took a painkiller after my biopsy, who refrained even from taking vitamins to avoid putting something unnecessary into my body.
After seeing two other oncologists, both of whom advised me to delay treatment for as long as possible, I decided to use one of them as my oncologist. The first doctor was surprised that I made this choice-he is local, and I have to travel one hour to see my doctor of choice. But I feel I am "doing something." I feel that I am not using up a chemotherapy option before I really need to. I believe that I have taken charge of my life, even if I cannot control my disease. Most of all, I am appalled that a doctor would suggest using chemotherapy for psychological purposes. There are other ways to treat stress, anxiety, and depression. For these symptoms, I found meditation tapes, music, hot tea, and a good shrink.
Schedule a meeting to ask any questions you have about medical background and about the doctor's attitudes and office policies, such as:
- How many patients with your type of lymphoma has she treated?
- At what hospitals does she have admitting privileges?
- Which clinical trials is she familiar with? It's important to have an oncologist familiar with the latest research in NHL.
- Which institutions is she affiliated with? For instance, does she have a faculty appointment at a medical school in addition to a private oncology practice?
- What treatment does she recommend? After the appointment, evaluate how this recommendation compares with what your reading has taught you.
- What is her policy for handling emergency calls after business hours?
- How will test results be communicated? Will ancillary doctors be given permission to communicate directly with you, the patient? Does the doctor object to leaving information on your answering or fax machine, if that's a method you prefer?
- Are family members welcome to call with questions? Some doctors prefer communicating only with the patient.
- Does the doctor's philosophy about health and life mesh well with your own? For example, does she espouse treatment at all costs over quality of life?
- Use some of this interview time to describe yourself and your expectations, such as how much participation you would like to have in healthcare decisions.
Neeraj, a survivor of NHL/ALL, describes how angry he felt when an insensitive doctor blurted out his diagnosis, then walked away:
I was diagnosed with a hybrid of T-cell ALL and non-Hodgkin's lymphoma on Halloween 1994 (was that scary!). I have been in remission since December 1994, and finished high-dose induction followed by twelve months of consolidation chemotherapy in November 1995. I was on low-dose maintenance therapy for two years after.
It hasn't been roses all the way. My diagnosis was a nightmare. This doctor (not my current hematologist) came in with my CT scan results, asked me what I was studying at school, what and where I was having pain, touched me at my sternum which hurt like hell, and then said in an unconcerned voice, "Okay, I must tell you that you have cancer, and you have it all over, in your chest, spleen … just one big laundry list." Then he said, "We have to do a bone marrow biopsy right away, so follow me," and vanished, leaving me and my brother-in-law behind in a state of shock. So when I got out of the room, I bumped into a nurse dressed up as a witch for Halloween, and she said, "Did I scare you?" I told her that she didn't, but the doctor sure did.
Even today I have not been able to reduce my resentment for that guy, but the rest of the doctors and nurses have more than made up for that first experience. I can't help but think that I get preferred treatment now that I have established such good relationships.
Overall, you want to make sure that the oncologist you choose has excellent medical credentials, extensive experience with NHL, and is affiliated with a treatment center that offers up-to-date resources. You'll want to weigh in other considerations such as communication skills, personal style, and office location.